Dad info legal eagle. (@welshbones) Active MemberRegistered. Aug 11, 2020 · CAFCASS Drug test? first time poster here. I had a one night stand on holiday 4 years ago with a girl who has sent me a message on facebook claiming that I'm the father of her baby girl. It also said where the child would reside. This can include acts and threats of violence, abusive communication and harassment. You can approach their solicitor or they may approach you. However the report being criticised by my barrister for its lack of work done with my son and myself. I am due in court for a final hearing on the 16th December to discuss unsupervised contact and overnight stays. She did this so I would have no legal rights then stopped me from seeing my daughter. For this to happen either the mother must agree. I have helped another dad and child is same age. My wife has today told me that she is moving my daughter out of her current school and into a different school. The birth certificate can be amended by the General Registry Office Dec 30, 2014 · Responding to a C1A. I have attempted many times to discuss Apr 3, 2024 · Hi I have been allocated a male for cafcass. Still not allowed to see Child as mum uses every excuse under the sun and has social workers wrapped around little finger. The results are in! After nearly two years of court hearings and stress, after my final hearing being postponed in March for 6 months due to covid, we finally made it to the final hearing in September, and despite my rather brutal performance under cross examination, the ruling has come in that my son is to come and live with me! Mar 24, 2023 · Yes, you can negotiate before the hearing. can i withdraw a c100 case from court. in which case you’ll have to elevate it to court. If you google the subject you'll find more info too. Jan 18, 2013 · if you were married when your child was born you will be named on the birth certificate and will have joint parental responsibility. The family court will not address, or all me to ask questions about these lies. Last Post. Sep 23, 2014 · Badgerdom. Apr 24, 2021 · Unfortunately there isnt much you can do about it. Apr 28, 2024 · So my ex wants to change our court agreement so that I have the kids every weekend which I have said I can not do. Last week I received a C1A form outlining a number of lies from my ex about emotional abuse and physical abuse of the children and also emotional abuse of my ex. My daughter is 6 months old and I see her 3 times a week for an hour, the ex tells me the times that I can see her and although it’s based around my shifts I have no other say in days/times. This is a follow up to the original C100 Guide Thread. The applicant or relevant child must need A father will have parental responsibility if he was married to the mother of the children, has a parental responsibility order or an agreement, and if the father is on the birth certificate after December 2003. May 3, 2014 · craigmcd. so for about 2 months i had kids stay overnight sat-sun Sep 19, 2014 · Why overnight with fathers is beneficial to the child as well as the parent-child relationship; "Overnights help to reduce the tension associated with rushing to return the child, and thus potentially. cafcass recommended gradual overnight contact. 2) There shall be a detailed assessment of the publicly funded costs associated Apr 11, 2022 · Some key points are: - FHDRA - should be used to determine the matters in dispute and whether non court dispute resolution can be used to remedy. Thoughts on this? I've only ever had female. how far do you live from your ex? if not that far, could perhaps drop the kids to school on monday morning after a long weekend. Hello everyone, after some advice here please as to where I stand. If writing to your ex, it doesnt need to contain any legal jargon, just be clear and to the point. I was mentally and emotionally exhausted, but I couldn't afford to back down since my children's future was Jul 1, 2020 · Hi I am a 23-year-old dad and have a 2-year-old son, so basically split up with my ex of 6 years on the 18th of May 2020 in a heated argument, I asked Dec 23, 2013 · Hi all!! I have been reading this forum for a while now and decided to seek advise from people who went through the same thing as my partner. info Forum Legal Eagle . In the CAFCASS stage 2 letter, Wife claims domestic abuse, no allegations of harm against the children but the fact I had an emotional breakdown and used to smoke cannabis (both nearly a year ago) means a section 7 report is required. We are open 8am-8pm. During my custody battle with my ex-wife, I felt lost and overwhelmed by the complexity of the legal system. Currently going through a divorce after 23 years together, sons are 21 and 17 years old, so obviously no young children involved. 2) Contact will take place at Funplex - a kids play area for two hours. Again if all is well and the child is comfortable and happy this can now move to overnights Aug 1, 2013 · Well as your solicitor says, she will either: A: It will scare her in to realising how unreasonable she is being and will help her to start being reasonable for the best interests of the kids. Reason why I cant have them every other weekend is because my Partner has a child and we have arrangements that I have my children one weekends and my partner has her child the other weekends. They would much rather the parties came to an agreement between themselves rather than imposing something on them, or one side 'winning'. They have a (mortgaged) house together (joint owners, both names on deeds). C: she’ll fight you…. I haven't seen her since holiday and we have been friends Guide to Representing Yourself in Court. She failed to do this claiming 1) she didn't know she had to do it (stated on first line of contact order) 2) She was under the impression the courts would do it (contact order May 11, 2023 · Custody battle challenges. He has also applied to have PR and Residence order but that hearing is later on in the year. The officer had never visited my home Dec. He was questioned by her barrister quite viciously so be prepared for that. It's possible the court may deal with both matters at the same time. A good MacKenzie friend would be my personal choice if funds allow. My guy recently had a 5 day fact finding. I have had my phone call from cafcass 6 days ago. info, so hello and apologies for only joining now I need some help Briefly, I have a contact order in place to see my daughter overnight fortnightly after a lengthy and costly court case. Hi guys, New to the website and read some very helpful advice regarding my situation. (@chip1942) Trusted Member Registered. So my first telephone interview is next week and court appearance next month. Overnights allow the child. I'm new to Dad. For 2 and half years I stayed away after seeking legal advice and being advised At the end of the second hearing (over the phone) the judge asked me to leave while he spoke to my ex. Dec 6, 2013 · Waiting for cafcass schedule 2 letter. Always be respectful, stay calm and stick to the facts. All it says in the order is positoon statements to be submitted and exchanged by x date, which is done, and that I have to send her the court bundle 7 days in advance, which is impossible given I only got the order today and hearing is in less than 7 days. We really need some advice yet again about the dreadful way in which CAFCASS are dealing with my partners case. This was after i filed the request for it due to the mother terminating contact Mar 4, 2018 · Now after researching this law it comes across anyone can make inquiries about a partners past to help them make a decision whether to leave or have a relationship with them. I am seperating from my wife we have two children 3 & 1. Where there has been proven domestic violence, mediation is considered inapproriate and can be bypassed. Dec 5, 2022 · Hi Guys, long time no post, i hope you are all as good as you can be under the circumstances, here’s a bit of an update from me… so after 8 years, 4 Mar 11, 2021 · Can I submit a statement and evidence at a FHDRA? Case began with as an emergency hearing, in front of a district judge. Mar 12, 2014 · If you need any further assistance you can always call our confidential advice line on 0808 802 0008. Nov 30, 2023 · Hi, the impression I get is that your ex is probably jealous of your partner and does not want the kids to be around her. Judge ordered that she has until 8th may to serve her 2nd statement and evidence while I have until the 15th may to serve my 1st statement evidence. Sep 9, 2021 · @daddy100 Hi, most times they have a legal advisor sitting beside the judge. But she has been told to prepare bundle 7 days before hearing which is in August. By the time your child is 2 you would therefore hope that you would be getting a full weekend from Friday evening to Sunday evening every fortnight with a mid weekly contact and if possible (due to work commitments) that being overnight. I am writing to you to request that we put in place a plan for regular and defined contact with (name of child/children) I would like to propose ( outlines days Apr 29, 2018 · Anyway, A few days a go i had my final hearing with my CAFCASS section 7 report being read and the case worker being questioned by my barrister. Involved in a custody battle. CAFCASS to carry out Section 7 report in the interim. Gjl2016. (@Badgerdom) Estimable Member Registered. If that goes well, for the next 12 weeks , a full day every fortnight. info forum struggling to help due to the stage my fight is at i find the Families Need Fathers forum (£35 or £40/yr) helps for some things i need answers to. (@yoda) Famed Member. __cfduid: 1 month Apr 4, 2023 · Non-Molestation Order - Undertakings. CAFCASS - Section 7 - Residency w/ Father. I would add i certainly wouldnt allow a 7 year old to go to a park or even cross a road without me being present. He's been in a relationship for approx 20 years, not married, two kids aged 5 and 8. Notifications Clear all Legal Eagle Regular Dad Info guest blogger 60/40 Dad shares Should mediation after family breakdown be compulsory? Dec 18, 2023 · Mothers have Parental Responsibility automatically and Father’s acquire it by either being named on the child’s birth certificate (after 1 December 2003) or being married to the child’s mother. Nov 28, 2023 · 1) Magistrates do not know the law as well as a Judge- magistrates are advised by a legal clerk who sits in the court. My duaghter has had a few issues in her current school where she feels she is being bullied (shes 8 years old). They will want to know your position before going into court. i think handovers at school will eliminate the trouble Feb 7, 2024 · Honorable Member. - Fact Finding Hearings - should only be held where the outcome determines Jan 23, 2022 · Cookie Duration Description __cf_bm: 30 minutes: This cookie is set by CloudFare. I have just received a copy from the court of what was discussed but i do not know what it means. Because of the time that has elapsed since you last saw your children you may only be granted supervised contact at a contact centre, which may even start with indirect contact by telephone or in writing. Jan 12, 2019 · I'll be honest i got as much from Dad. Notifications Clear all Legal Eagle Regular Dad Info guest blogger 60/40 Dad shares Should mediation after family breakdown be compulsory? Aug 26, 2020 · Legal Eagle. Sadly over a year on from being on the receiving end of an ex-parte non-molestation order I'm still no further forward to seeing my daughter. Apr 11, 2022 · Some key points are: - FHDRA - should be used to determine the matters in dispute and whether non court dispute resolution can be used to remedy. (@Gjl2016) Eminent Member Registered. Today a Child Arrangements Order was issued by 3 lay judges at the family court that allow me to have my daughter every other weekend from Friday evening till Sunday. If there is a pattern of repeated false or unproven allegarions then it will affect your ex's credibility as a witness. This is usually 2:2:5:5 to give a share of weekends. Disregarding the ins and outs of my situation. (@thorneys) New Member Registered. This is my first time on here having been giving your details from The Legal Community Advise Centre after I contacted Croydon County Courts. Here-in is practical support on how to complete the new C100 Child Arrangement Order . We agreed to a cross undertaking. It costs £200 to apply for a contact order. (@Nannyjane) Illustrious Member Registered. Feb 24, 2013 · Nannyjane. So far; I have the section 7 report now. Depending on which court you are using, you will then serve the papers to your ex or they will. Contact was ordered again & the order set out the agreed scheduled times of the contact & how often it would be. (@antlen) Estimable Member Registered. and put up with it. They called my ex yesterday. CAFCASS in their call to the father asked about this, and the father simply replied "I do not accept that has happened, and when I am parenting our children, we Feb 17, 2024 · Hi. In fact, it is encouraged by the court. Ancillary relief order. Feb 22, 2020 · Update . It's going to be a bit of a long one. thorneys. it went to court after ex refused overnight contact. Collaborative law. You have to allow the court 10 working days to process (ours took 8 w days) and the Directions Hearing is usually within 6-8 weeks. My first hearing went great, with the judge basically dismissing a fact finding and jumping straight to a Section 7. 4 years later. CAFCASS TELEPHONE INTERVIEW. Aug 6, 2014 · Simon. Legal Eagle . Feb 26, 2024 · Cookie Duration Description __cf_bm: 30 minutes: This cookie is set by CloudFare. I think the arrangements do sound very restrictive for a 9 year old. If your ex refuses mediation then court is the next step. They have watered down everything that I’ve said and missed out important concerns that I have raised. He is applying for direct contact but the CAFCASS officer has written the most scathing report possible and she is very biased against my partner and she has not based the report on facts but on her own Oct 9, 2015 · The court's decision may depend on the outcome of the police involvement with regard to the allegation from your daughter. I have received my CAFCASS report, obviously it is completely biased and full of false allegations. this is 1 of my issues with my Ex, I have been separated from her 4 over 8yrs and I live in Birmingham and my daughter lives in Wales and for the last 8yrs I have always picked up/dropped off my Daughter from a meet point that was agreed threw solicitors back in 2007. So I currently live abroad so having sporadic visits with my children in the UK, mainly due to ex's parental alienation and now also due to COVID. Hi, I'm looking for some advice for my Brother. Oct 15, 2018 · Anything that sounds like you are blaming the mother is likely to have a negative effect on the children if they are already aligning themselves with their mother. Feb 12, 2019 · Yoda. Hi. So finally I have recieved the Cafcass report and as the title suggests indirect contact only, the report states many times social services have no concerns and contact would be in the childs best interests but as mother is opposed to any sort of direct contact the Cafcass officer has taken the view it Mar 5, 2024 · Help Relocate. Jan 12, 2015 · 2). Coram Children’s Legal Centre. I arrived home this afternoon to find a note from the postman informing me I have to collect a letter that needs signing Jul 31, 2023 · @bill337 Hi Bill, thank you very much for coming back to me. FHDRA . __cfduid: 1 month Apr 12, 2024 · Cookie Duration Description __cf_bm: 30 minutes: This cookie is set by CloudFare. May 27, 2024 · Hoping I can receive guidance in regard to Divorce and Pension Entitlement. Mar 16, 2015 · Next step - unsupervised contact for a full morning or afternoon in your home, or supervised at the home of a family member, a grandparent perhaps. Along with causing me significant anguish, neighbours refusing to speak to me I also believe that these lies have influenced decisions in the family court. -Works with Cafcass and the court to move things forward. No. Prior to applying to Court there is an obligation for you to have attempted mediation (barring exceptional circumstances mentioned later). The following three principles should be considered by a court in deciding whether to grant a non-molestation order: There must be evidence of molestation (C v C (Non-molestation order: jurisdiction) [1998] 1 FLR 554). There are a lot more 50/50 arrangements being made by the courts now. Yours sincerely. 3). The order doesn’t consider arrangements for school and the order cited the child’s young age as a factor when maki Jun 11, 2015 · C79 - Worth the cost? Hello there. BW. hi, during my hearings, childs were aged 5 and 2 (and 0 but not relevant here). I’ve recently had to write a letter to my child to apologise for something i haven’t done deliberately that my child has been alienated to believe that i have. If you disagree then you can try mediation. Hi guys I was wondering if you could shed some light on a few things for me. We hope that this assists you. Long story short, the mother of my daughter registered her without me and purposely neglected to put my name on the birth certificate. Currently ongoing child arrangements in court. Nov 10, 2022 · A fathers name can be added to the child’s birth certificate at a later date. I’d have to agree here, write to the courts as per BW’s reply. If you're intending to apply for your own Non Mol and she is being arrested, I would suggest you contact a lawyer who takes on Legal Aid clients. We do this so when I don't have my Jul 18, 2022 · The first previous hearing I had. Is this right or can it be sold & she has her half. Feb 13, 2024 · Hi All,A final order has been made. (@dadlad) Estimable Member Registered. Nov 19, 2012 · Mother will not put me on birth certificate. Hi Steve 🙂. It has been in place for around 3 years. 1) Her solicitor has ceased to be her solicitor for this case. You may be required to complete a DNA test to verify that you are not the father; the cost of this test will be reimbursed by the CSA if you are proven not to be the father. She says i still have to pay mortgage to keep her in the house until the youngest is 18. The court will order reports (particularly because of the DV investigation) and these can take up to 16 weeks to complete and you may need 3or 4 hearings to reach resolution. I am contesting a non molestation order my ex filed against me. B: Ignore it…. improve the quality and satisfaction of the contact both for the parent and child. Hi, My first post. (@bill337) Illustrious Member. But I was hoping to get some advice from those who have had similar experiences. (@Dec) Reputable Member Registered. With courts the norm is generally fri-sun every other weekend, and half of school holiday's, if dad is available and seeks it. Me and my ex-partner had a child in 2016, and at one month old it was decided between us that he would live with me. (@moleymoleymoley) New Member Registered. Please don't judge me on this. generally those of us who self-represent are at a disadvantage, due to not knowing our rights, the law and the process in those courts. Jul 20, 2019 · Bill337. 1. Prior to this I have a telephone interview with CAFCASS. I have had to unfortunately cancel last minute on a few occasions due to last minute shift changes, my ex Nov 14, 2017 · Scott Schedule - Finding of Fact. They have instructed a section 7 report and no contact until this is done. When i find Dad. • separated June 16 (was seeing my child and two step children regularly until August 16). Mum made false allegations and a year later fully cleared. So you can ask them about this passport issue at your hearing. - Mediation - at every possible opportunity, it should be considered whether mediation would be better rather than court. Section 7's have been done, cafcass guardian appointed (because mine and the mothers views are complete opposite in terms of her false accusations). -Credible. I tend to think that I am better off submitting the C100 form as suggested. Our current contact arrangement order has been in place for 2 years now and whilst it got me from very little contact to overnight contact there was a lot that was left open ended with the court hoping / expecting us to expand on contact outside of the order Feb 9, 2015 · We advise you to inform the court what you are seeking to do and they should be able to provide you with the correct form. Solicitor to solicitor negotiation. (@Daddydoo) Trusted Member Registered. But the person inquiring must have good cause to apply for a full disclosure. I think best solution here would be for you to pick up the kids from school on a friday. info forum at the time and for free. 11am till 1PM. This is my first time posting here, and I am seeking advice from all the wise minds on this forum. Sep 29, 2014 · The key to successfully contesting a non mol is evidence evidence and evidence! Gather as much as you can and by the time you submit it to court and she gets a copy, she probably won't turn up to trial too! Scare her and her solicitor with evidence against every point she has made against you! Aug 31, 2019 · Daddydoo. My wife has made serious demonstrable lies about me to the family court, Cafcass and neighbours. My daughter is still quite young. This is a very difficult question to answer! If she continues to contest contact then it could go on for a year or more. welshbones. his physical, emotional and educational needs; The court are required to consider the child’s short term and long term physical, emotional and educational needs. Concerns and general background of the case were heard Mar 23, 2022 · DadLad. after breakup i was seeing both kids every saturday for most of day. Mar 9, 2024 · Shift work and shared care with young daughter. If a parent has parental responsibility they can request Feb 18, 2020 · It is important to be aware that the wishes and feelings of the child are viewed in conjunction with other factors and will not wholly dictate the outcome. Aug 9, 2013 · The increase should be moved forward in small steps with a goal in mind. You just need to play the long game and show that you are the opposite: -Child focused. In your case the birth certificate and marriage certificate should be enough. (@craigmcd) Estimable Member Registered. The cookie is used to support Cloudfare Bot Management. . The registrar can assist in adding the fathers name to the birth certificate. Prior to the court hearing there was both overnight and full weekend contact, until contact was ceased by the ex. Jan 15, 2016 · For instance, I know a RP (mother) who made false allegations in her CAFCASS call about the father "deliberately upsetting the kids by talking to them about her, and about the divorce". Dec 1, 2014 · antlen. So he Apr 15, 2022 · If your ex refuses to sign a clean break order or you and your ex-spouse are struggling to come to an agreement, there are various options available. Evidence will need to be provided that the father is the child’s father. __cfduid: 1 month Feb 9, 2015 · Getting an undertaking discharged/cancelled. Notifications Clear all [Solved] FHDRA Last Post Dadgoingfor5050 (@dadgoingfor5050) Regular Dad Info guest blogger 60/40 Dad shares Jan 13, 2023 · Defamation. If you create problems your ex could suddenly stop all your contact. chip1942. Apr 23, 2024 · moleymoleymoley. These are all lies but I am unsure If i respond to Mar 30, 2017 · CAFCASS recomended supervised contact. I am in court on the 16th January representing myself. Mar 29, 2014 · There's a sticky at the top of the legal eagle section that links to the Bar Council - a guide to self representing. I was able to provide a statement and some evidence for that initial hearing, however it was at such short notice it was quickly drafted up which the judge acknowledged. This can be in the form of a signed declaration from the mother. Oct 23, 2015 · Unfairly biased CAFCASS report. If you do this yourself, you can complete a C2 form for the NMO and take this with you on the day. I haven't seen her since holiday and we have been friends Page 47 | Need some advice or help or just a second opinion about legal stuff to do with your family or kids? Jul 19, 2021 · Cookie Duration Description __cf_bm: 30 minutes: This cookie is set by CloudFare. Hi, Urgent help needed. He did have representation but he was very nervous as the ex lies so well everyone believes her. Magistrates are workers like you and I - most often previous headteachers, ceo's etc who hear "summary cases" like anti social behaviour - fines etc. Jul 17, 2012 · Changing Schools without my consent. Hi Gaby, Contact was initially agreed at fortnightly contact centre sessions, and then gradually increased. My ex-wife made the situation even more difficult by turning every little issue into a major dispute. This avenue is typically recommended for high-conflict divorces. Hi, I applied for a non-molestation order against my ex partner after her family were harassing me after our separation. Afternoon guys, About 9 months ago, the family court proceedings in which i was invloved with my little one were concluded. Looking for further tips from people in or have been in a similar scenario. Hello, Try and cut a long story short. as daddyup mentioned, you could seek legal advice. Any further questions, do not hesitate to contact us on 0808 802 0008 Mon – Fri 8am-8pm. Dear --------. Say you will write to them in 6 weeks if it is progressing well to cancel the application. Mediation. Every fortnight x 6 = 12 weeks. currently i have been building a case for custody, as there is no legal aid unless social say the kids are at risk it makes it much harder to be able Free Legal Advice – – Legal Eagle – DAD. There's a section about cross examination. police can if feel required disclose certain information. In the last 18 months his relationship has deteriorated with his partner. Oct 6, 2013 · Keeping roof over ex & childrens heads. Apr 9, 2019 · Unfortunately the Judge seems to take the letter pretty seriously. __cfduid: 1 month She says I'm the father. Arrangements will depend on work patterns, access to school, accommodation etc etc. C100 Child Arrangement Order (CAO) Guide. The magistrates have advised that they would prefer for my ex and I to have an agreement in place regarding overnight stays and unsupervised visits. 1) Prohibited steps order was put into place - so Maternal family can monitor my contact while court proceedings go ahead. Jul 15, 2014 · Hi, My ex was ordered by the court to file a reporting letter from her GP regarding her mental health (she has Borderline Personality Disorder & possibly Bipolar). Mediation will have been attempted, as it is a requirement before a court application can be made. We are trying to have an amicable divorce, my wife has left and I currently have the house (including mortgage) and 2 sons and pet dog. My ex-partner has another child by a different dad (a drug addict) who is severely disabled. You will have now submitted your C100 form to the Courts and any additional documentation relating to Aug 25, 2022 · They are common place in court proceedings. 2. Contact was stopped due to my reluctance to get back together. Sep 3, 2023 · Hi, Can any one give any testimonies on their experience with parental responsibility and the next steps? Some background: i'm seeking parental responsibility for my daughter who is just over 2 years old (i know i should have done it earlier), i separated with her mother a couple of months after my daughter was born, despite still being together, my daughters mother decided that she would not . I assume you write to the courts explaining you wish to defer your dates for 6 weeks as you wish to solve matters amicably. If its feasible for you to have the children 50/50 then there is no reason why you should not ask for this. - Fact Finding Hearings - should only be held where the outcome determines She says I'm the father. Nov 18, 2010 · If would be advisable to contact the Child Support Agency, their telephone number is: 08457 133 133. The report overall recommended my son stays with his mother. However 3 months later, the nmo is making things difficult as we have a young daughter and the undertaking is very awkward. as dadid says you can do what you see fit regarding who you trust with your child. I have had similar with my ex and again as dadid said we do anything to see our kids . gd oo cx bl jb ja mh jk xq uq